Let's Have an Honest Conversation

After more than two decades working inside hotels and venues, I've learned something that surprises almost every couple I meet: the biggest mistakes rarely happen on the wedding day — they happen before the contract is ever signed.

I'm not an attorney, and this isn't legal advice. But I have negotiated, reviewed, and worked with hundreds of venue agreements from the inside. My goal is simple: help you ask better questions before you sign.

"The best venues welcome informed couples — because clear expectations make for better events."

The 10 Red Flags

1
Pricing that isn't truly all-inclusive.
2
Food and beverage minimums that exclude tax, service charges, or rentals.
3
Vague language around overtime.
4
Exclusive vendor requirements.
5
Setup and breakdown windows that don't fit your vendors.
6
Hidden ceremony or room-flip fees.
7
Deposit schedules and refund policies.
8
Force majeure wording that isn't clearly explained.
9
Venue flexibility to change your room assignment.
10
Verbal promises that never make it into the contract.

For every one of these, my advice is the same: ask questions until you understand every line. A great venue should never make you feel uncomfortable for asking.

✦ Venue Insider Tip

Before signing, request a sample final invoice or estimate — not just the proposal. Seeing the complete picture helps you understand exactly what your investment may look like.

Final Thoughts

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Jennifer Gonzalez
Jennifer Gonzalez
Founder, The Venue Insider

20+ years in luxury hospitality across Loews Miami Beach, the Fontainebleau, 1 Hotel, and beyond. Jennifer shares insider knowledge so couples and aspiring planners can make smarter decisions.